Healthcare Directives and Planning
The call came late on a Thursday. The husband of a long married couple had suffered a stroke 2 weeks earlier. He had lost the ability to swallow and the doctor at the hospital had urged surgery to place a feeding tube directly to his stomach before transferring him to a skilled nursing facility, where it was expected he would remain for the rest of his life.
By his wife’s report, she didn’t feel she had been given an option; the doctor simply told them this was the next step in his care so he could be discharged from the hospital. Now in the skilled nursing facility she had time to see the situation more clearly and realized this wasn’t what her husband had told her he wanted if he was in this situation.