Is That What I said? That’s not what I meant!

You might remember a children’s game from long ago called “Telephone:” Someone thought of a message and whispered it to the person next to them, who whispered it to the person next to them and so on. The last person would repeat what they heard out loud and it was always met with giggles and shouts because it rarely bore any resemblance to the initial message.

In effect any time we share information, there are two things in play: not just what we say, but also how the listener hears/interprets it. In theory it’s the responsibility of both parties to make sure that “communication,” a shared understanding, has occurred, but in the case of giving our medical history there are some very real barriers to that happening. read more